WHO ARE YOUR FRIENDS?

Our lives as a whole is revolved around relationship, we crave for someone to talk, laugh, play, and work with. In essence, we need people, as they say no man is an island. Though, there are millions of people in the world, but there are certain people we hold very dearly to our hearts, we spend most of our time with them, share our fears, dreams and hopes with them—-OUR CLOSE FRIENDS.
There is no denying the fact that your close friends have a great impact in your life, they influence what you do and believe. When you spend a greater part of your life with a person, you tend to act,talk,think like the Person . As they say ‘ show me your friends, and I’ll show you who you are or who you soon shall be.
Your friends can either take you closer to your destiny or far from it. Most people you sometimes refer to as friends are nothing but PARASITES and VULTURES in your life. They add nothing  to your life, they are of no positive influence or benefit in your life…….infact, life was better for you before they showed  up in your life from them. They hardly correct you when you are doing wrong. They praise you in your presence, but at your back, they say terrible stuff about you. But on the other hand some people are what they call BLESSING  in a person’s life . These set of friends give more than they take from you, they enrich your life and push  you up when you can’t go on by yourself, they will be generous with praise at your success and eager with encouragement at your struggles. They will not patronise you to make you feel good all the time, but they will tell you the truth and sometimes scold you real hard and help you get better for a lifetime . When I watch movies like Harry potter or legend of the seeker and the rest, the heroes in these movies are nothing without the help of there close pals. These friends propelled them to greatness . Their friends nurtured, helped, took them to their respective destines. Most great people are ordinary people with extraordinary friends.
Sometimes, you have to leave behind people that have no positive influence in your life, people that are not willing to climb the mountain with you, people that don’t share your goals, visions with you, people that you have nothing in common with. The truth is that there are some people you just have to love from a distance. It’s great to welcome people into your lives, but don’t set the bar or standard so low to people who will do more harm than good to your destiny. Great relationships are hard to come by, but are very rewarding. I guess you should be willing to ask yourself “my close friends are they parasites or blessings?
Choose your friends and don’t let them choose you!!!!!!! PepeRempe….peace

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2 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. chubby
    Apr 02, 2012 @ 15:32:04

    Funny how peeps neglect the truth, nice write up u shuld do dis 4 a living you no.

    Reply

  2. Faji
    Apr 02, 2012 @ 18:50:35

    Nice write up !

    Reply

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