“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. However, his still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”

I got a message from one of my very good friend, OLIVIA, who is struggling with a broken heart after her “wonderful” boyfriend broke up with her via text message, telling her she’s “amazing, beautiful, and a keeper” and that they will be together…just not NOW.
olivia……my sweet, wonderful, worthy friend here’s some news that might shock you.
This boyfriend? He’s not so “wonderful.”
A wonderful guy doesn’t break up with his girlfriend via text message. A wonderful guy doesn’t attempt to string you along by telling you you’ll be together “someday.” And a wonderful guy doesn’t do all these things and then stop calling you all together, with zero concern about your feelings.
A wonderful guy mans up, sits you down face-to-face, and tells you why he can’t be with you anymore. A wonderful guy lets you go, so you can move on instead of hang on. And a wonderful guy cares enough about you and the time the two of you spent together to make sure you have a clear understanding of where your relationship (or lack thereof) stands before disappearing off the face of the earth.
Ladies: Here’s something we tend to get twisted. You will never have to play with a TRULY wonderful man to figure out whether he wants to be with you. It will be spelled out for you in no uncertain terms with his actions. Why? Because a man, a real man, a wonderful man, will be too busy protecting your heart to play with it.
Move on, dear olivia. This man is not worthy of one more minute, one more tear, one more ounce of your energy…or, in my opinion, even one more text message………..pepeRempe……..peace



All men are liars. No matter how well you think you know a man, it’s all lies. They are incapable or telling the truth and they are incapable of being decent human beings.

I mean, fuck
OH……. you light up my world
You are everfing i ask for in a woman
Am inlove with you
Babe am crazy about YOU
I dont know how to be with 2gurls @ the same time
You gonna be the mother of my unborn KIDS
You are my morning STAR
Have broken up with my EX
That why am proud to take you anywhere
That why have got no issue been with you all the time
She’s forcing herself on me
She get @ me bcos she knows everyone in my family
My family wants me to marry her bcos they all like her
I will do anyfing to keep you as my WIFE
I miss you so much
I want you to get pregnant for me
Babe dont worry everyfing will b fine
Babe dont khee yourself
Babe i love you, you ar my LIFE

dont u just hate it when u look into a man eyes fall nd then see that who u are ain’t really enough for them ………….men are jst a lying toads, ain’t no prince charming gonna appear frm kissing a toad
why is it that no fucking man can tell you the whole truth!!!
then when you eventually find out, they try to worm there way out of it with there pathetic excuse. Well this is for all the women out there who have had enough of it. we all need to put our foot down with our men so that there FUCK UP can be highly treated !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


“A relationship isn’t going to make me survive. It’s the cherry on top.” ~Jennifer Aniston


When did our relationship status become symbolic of our status in life? When did someone decide it takes “putting a ring on it” to give a woman value and worth? And when did “single” become synonymous with “desperate”? In the post-modern, post-Sex & the City, post-Spice Girls world we live in, hasn’t the motion of “Girl Power” caught on yet? It seems that although women have had the right to vote for decades now, they still don’t have the right to vote for how they’re going to spend their own lives.
So, as the fierce and fabulous MARTINA McBRIDE would say: “This one’s for the girls.”
for the girls who believe in love, but also believe in themselves. The ones that have looked settling in the eye and walked away. The ones who know their worth better than to accept a life less than the one they deserve. The girls who happen to prefer registering for pole-dancing. The girls who choose margarita parties over Tupperware parties. The girls who know they don’t need a ring to sing…or a mate to be great. The girls who know that ME has to come before WE. The ones who know that late blooming roses are often the sweetest. The ones who like owning their own schedules, their own weekends, their own independence. The ones who boldly chart their own path…even if it doesn’t include a white picket fence. The ones who hope for romance but with or without it, crank up the music and DANCE. The girls who don’t allow their joy to depart simply because love hasn’t yet arrived.
At the end of the day, next time you check the box (S) for single, remember this: Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out. Whether or not you have someone in the passenger seat, you are still the driver of your own life and can take whatever road you choose. So the next time you hit a speed bump otherwise known as the AGE -OLD QUESTION “Why are you still SINGLE?” look ‘em in the eye and say: “Because I’m too fabulous to settle.

WHAT 365DAYS CAN DO………………….

While I sat to evaluate and estimate what I could do in A day, I underestimate what I could do in a year.
I want to encourage you as we enter this new year, when you face hard times in the year ahead, take a look back on where you came from not with sadness, or defeat, or longing for where you used to be……but with a sense of pride and accomplishment and triumph that YOU DIDN’T STAY THERE.
You got up, you pushed through, you fought the good fight , rose from ashes, you kept your head held high, you refused to let defect get the last word. And if you did ALL that in 2011……..there is NOTHING you can’t accomplish or overcome in 2012.
The enemy of best is good so if you are always settling for what is GOOD, you will never be the BEST.
So fucking throw GOOD away and allow the BEST to come your way……………pepeRempe……………….peace